Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Following the norm?

Gosh! How I miss penning down my thoughts. Work keeps on coming, a sign to recovery it seems. However, after the restructuring which took place about a year ago, having more staff would be good. I can sense my colleagues and I are knackered.

Anyway, let’s talk on girly stuff. *smiles*

A group of girls, well, two mothers and their ever-so-chic daughters, went roaming in the department stores in search of the right frock. It didn’t matter to the girls what kind of clothes we tried on as long as they were pretty, or better, made us looked like a princess or fairy. They do have those clothes you know, I mean, being magical creatures. They were our biggest critics, although one of them vocabulary was limited to ‘pretty’, ‘cute’ or ‘princess’. We had so much fun that we forgot how tired we felt until we reached home. All of us had an early night. In fact, I reckoned we slept earlier than our girls. *lol*

On another note, sometimes I feel the expectation set by people can be rather annoying. Just because some of us choose simplicity, it does not mean we are not excited. Take the designers for example. Some love ‘bling bling’ and others prefer the concept of ‘less is more’. Why do people question the unnecessary details when the end result is still the same? A few years from now, I dont think they even remember those things.

If you like something, it doesn’t matter how much it costs as long as you wear it, then the item is worthy. There is no point buying designer shoes or bags if they end up in the closet. Similarly a small party attended by people you care is more meaningful. In fact, some dont even like parties and their idea of a birthday celebration is to stay at home and perhaps cook dinner for their loved ones. Yet, people love to question on the lack of following the norm. For all we know, the trend was created by a handful but just because they are the attention seekers, it becomes an acceptable way of life.

Right, I better get ready to work now.

6 comments:

~Ibu Anggun~ said...

i agree.

it annoys me when someone critics me of not doing things the way they usually do it just because they think theirs are the default one.

i think this kind of people needs to open up for life more because they are stucked somewhere.

IDB said...

Are you getting ready for Halloween ?

Simplicity is the way to go and a small do is more meaningful when celebrated with loved ones.

n.i. said...

i agreeeee!!!

Ms B said...

hi jane,

maybe they need an eye opener. :-) i think i managed to plug my ears most times but occasionally, it does annoy.

Ms B said...

IDB,

err.... not exactly but it does involve a costume.

i think i'm getting old. *lol* i like being in a company of a few and enjoy coffee or home cooked food.

Ms B said...

n.i.,

i saw your new 'addition'! bling2, eh? ;-)